A Beginner’s Guide to Popular Sex Toys
Explore what feels good—for you, your partner, or both.
Whether you’re new to pleasure products or simply looking to try something different, this guide will help you explore confidently and comfortably. Sex toys can support solo satisfaction, deepen connection with a partner, and expand your understanding of pleasure. Below, we’ve broken down the most popular types of toys, what they do, and how to find the right one for you.
Vibrators: For External, Internal, or Blended Bliss
Vibrators come in all shapes and intensities—designed to stimulate erogenous zones like the clitoris, vulva, vagina, perineum, and more. They’re one of the most versatile and widely loved categories.
Clitoral Vibrators
Perfect for external stimulation, these toys deliver targeted pleasure where it counts most.
- Vush – Orb Pleasure Ring – powerful, and easy to use
- Shegasm – Mini – the perfect travel companion
Tip: Many people with vulvas find clitoral stimulation essential for reaching orgasm. Start here if you’re unsure what to try first.
G-Spot & Internal Vibrators
These toys are designed with a curve to stimulate the G-spot or inner vaginal walls.
- G Wave Vibrator – powerful, and easy to use
- Satisfyer G-Spot Flex 4+ – flexible, smooth, and body-safe
Couples Toys: For Shared Pleasure
Couples toys are made to be enjoyed with a partner—whether during penetration, foreplay, or from a distance using app-controlled features.
- Blush – Play With Me – app-enabled for long-distance play or discreet date nights
- CalExotics Connect Couples Ring – worn during intercourse for shared stimulation
Tip: Open communication can make exploring new sensations even more enjoyable. Check in, laugh a little, and be curious together.
Wand Massagers: Big Vibes, Big Energy
Wands deliver broad, deep vibrations and are a great option for those who love strong stimulation. They also double as relaxing body massagers.
- Blush – Stella – rechargeable, powerful, and quiet
Did you know? Wands were originally sold for sore muscles—then discovered to be just as effective for clitoral pleasure!
Anal Toys: Explore with Confidence
Anal toys are safe, body-friendly options designed for gradual exploration. All come with flared bases or retrieval rings for worry-free play.
- Blush – Luxe – Bling Plugs Training Kit – beginner-friendly and smooth
- Inspire Silicone Dilator 5-Piece Set – perfect for slow, comfortable progress
Pro Tip: Use a thick, water-based or hybrid lube to reduce friction and make everything feel better. Anal tissue doesn’t self-lubricate!
How to Choose the Right Toy
There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to pleasure. Here’s what to consider:
- What kind of stimulation do you enjoy? Clitoral, internal, anal, or all of the above?
- Playing solo or with a partner? Choose toys that match your intimacy style.
- Do you want quiet or powerful? Consider motor strength, volume, and features.
- Materials matter: Look for body-safe, non-porous materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
- Rechargeable vs. battery-powered: Rechargeable toys are eco-friendly and usually stronger, while battery-powered options are more portable.
Toy Care, Cleaning & Safety
- Clean toys before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy-safe cleaner.
- Use only water-based lube with silicone toys.
- Store toys in soft bags or clean containers—avoid letting them touch each other if made from different materials.
Why Shop with LoveGap?
- Body-safe, quality-tested materials
- Discreet packaging and fast, free shipping in Canada
- Inclusive, judgment-free education and curated collections
Whether it’s your first toy or your fiftieth, our team is here to support your exploration every step of the way. If you’re ever unsure where to start, just reach out—we’re happy to help!
Ready to explore?
Browse our full collection or check out the categories above to discover what turns you on. Your pleasure, your pace—always.